Long story short, my boyfriend dumped me after 2 1/2 years together, we lived together had a pretty normal relationship, barely argued got on well, he broke up with me saying his feelings had changed. 2 days later he went away for work for 6 weeks. The only contact we have had was to sort out me moving out and financial stuff. The one thing he said that stuck in my mind was 'I wouldn't hate you if you got with someone new tomorrow'. That's pretty over it if you ask me?
I've been in NC for a month now. A few weeks after he left I went out for a girls night out with my friends, and he deleted me off EVERYTHING straight away?
I think I've been pretty calm and cool about him ending it, I know that chasing him won't bring him back so I don't understand why he feels the need to just cut me out like I never even existed? He's burning all the bridges?
Most Helpful Guy
Don't read too much into it. Maybe he really cares about you at some level and he is just trying to cut you out so he doesn't lead you along by getting back together with you when he knows he feels different.
Maybe he just said that because you were moving and he works a lot, he didn't want a long distance thing because he didn't think it would work out.
Who really knows? A little chasing never hurt anybody, it would have shown that you really cared about him. He may have been on the fence about it for all you know. A little support on your end may have kept him around but your being Non-Chalant about it sealed your fate, now he thinks you weren't very interested.1
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Most Helpful Girl
That's harsh. Some guys don't care.1