I got dumped about 2 months ago. First week and half she (SB) was call calling and texting "I miss you" "have a good day" etc when I would do the same to her she asked for time and space. Next thing I know she unfriended me on facebook. SB said it was too hard to for her to see the pictures of us together, & that she had a lot of mixed feelings. She said we were broken up and that she needed time to sort everything out. I told her "Okay have a good day let me know if you need anything" 2-3 days later she adds me back as a friend.
I should known then just do deny the request but I still love this chick so I accepted. Couple more weeks go by and its still Hot and cold. One minute he's reaching out saying "hey", "good night" "i miss scaring you" I was trying to do the no contact but then she sends a text "So are we not talking anymore" I was dumb and replied "yes I've just been busy" next day I text her and she starts ignoring me.
About 3-4 weeks, ago she (SB) starts putting status on Facebook like "WTF", "really" "loving life" "what a great weekend" etc which she really had never done before most of her status have been about her daughter. During this whole time my friends and family have been trying to cheer me up hanging out taking me out to try and get my mind of things and of course pictures and posts with me tagged in them.
2 weeks ago I noticed that SB liked some of my status' and pictures so naturally i start browsing through hers because I still miss her and her daughter. She posted a few pictures of them and I liked them. Next thing I know I'm Blocked.
I dont understand it? Why can SB like my posts but I couldnt do the same? I miss this girl and I dont know why I can't stop thinking about her. Why?
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Although it may be hard, I think you should just ignore SB completely. Don't let people come in and out of your life whenever they feel like it. If she really cared about you she wouldn't be messing with your mind. She's making it harder for you to move on. The double standards are just crazy. She might be trying to make you look bad. And by all the texting, she might just be trying to make herself feel better since she knows someone cares for her in her time of singleness/loneliness. Maybe KC was waiting for the day you 2 would break up because she never got over you. If KC makes you happier than SB does, go for it. At least KC hasn't been sketchy and texts you all the time. Don't get played by SB because it seems like she's trying to make you her puppet. I was in a similar situation and I just stopped with my SB & moved on to my KC. Although none of us were ever really dating, I prefer talking to my KC because I don't have to worry about the bs & I don't have to wonder if I'll be ignored out of nowhere. Hope I helped!0