So I really need some help with this whole no contact thing. Sometimes I can't control myself and I'll pick up or text him back. I can't change my number because I am on his phone plan. So what can I do to make it easier not talking to him? And what can I do to help me move on? I'm just so hurt and confused right now... I would really appreciate any help or support. Thank you so much!
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Well thats the first thing you need to change, get off his phone plan. Then once you get that done, block his number, You can't call him either. Then block and delete him on all social media and email.
You are going to have a hard time getting through the first couple of weeks, I remember when I broke up with my first fiance it was hard. She would call and text and IM me all the time. We would talk normally, as long as things about relationships didn't come up. I eventually broke off contact with her because it was causing me so much heart ache, but once that happened things got better for me, and I healed. Thats what you need, time to heal. But point is he didn't respect you, or your relationship enough to keep it in his pants. If he has a girl that wants to spend the rest of her life with him why did he go outside the relationship, and if he cheated a lot how are you ever going to trust him.
Get off his plan, get your own, get your own place, move in with mom and dad, whatever. But you need to break things off. he realizes that he can't have his cake and eat it to. He feels bad because he got caught, not because he did something wrong. Idiots like this are a dime a dozen. Im sorry baby, I didn't mean it, I won't do it again, I miss you, I dont want to lose you. You never had him if he was sleeping around behind your back. Once you make it hard for him to contact you, just live life. Hang out with friends and do things for you. It will hurt, but you will get better over time.