In all honesty this is how it went, i'm 21 was with a girl who was never happy, besides me doing everything for her as a bf not saying i'm perfect but i cared/supported/loved her unconditionally/made her feel special etc. I didn't really do anything wrong she even acknowledged that when she broke up with me for the 3rd time. She was never happy because she always had a problem, she has this perfect fairytale ideal of a perfect guy and she tried to mold me into this guy. Apparently i was perfect in every way, except the fact i wasn't catholic like she was, the fact i didn't go to the gym like she did eventhough she went to the and ended up doubling in size over the course of our relationship (still loved her the same regardless) and while i didn't go the gym i lost weight even i'm not even fat just not toned etc while she is overweight.
Anyway this girl always had a problem, she complained that i wasn't catholic like she wanted me to be said she would break up with me if i didn't accept that our future children will be raised catholic as she wants them to be, said as i didn't go the gym what kind of father will i be because i don't look after myself. THEN we break up right, then we get back together and a new problem emerges i'm not ambitious enough, i'm currently at university studying law in my first year as i am not getting top end grades she has decided i am not going to be rich and successful so dumped me.
Anyway i blame myself, no one told me to get back with her, i knew what she was like but still went back to her. She would break up with me then beg for me back i adamantly didn't want her back the 3rd time she begged for months, then i gave in and she dumped me after a month again like the 2nd time, to be honest i blame myself, agree?
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like she just wanted an excuse to get rid of you regardless. You aren't to blame for having hope/being in love. But you are to blame for not realizing that she isn't compatible/worth your time. Breaking up that many times is ridiculous, even if you had a better job, she's probablly find something else to break up with you, such as your teeth aren't white enough, or you make too much noise when you eat.
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Most Helpful Guy
"to be honest i blame myself, agree?" Not sure it's a blame issue... but i will say that long ago you should have done what you have done now... let the little prostitute in Catholic schoolgirl costume go make her living by sucking in guys who will pay her way forever. And just to keep the high road, be happy for the whore.
And by the way, Google various female behavioral disorders... I'm sure you'll find descriptions of her actions there, along with possibly her photo.