My BF of 5 years cheated on me. Needless to say I'm devastated. We tried working it out and one night he took off to mates place to have a drink and after I questioned him eventually he told me that he met up with the same girl in town and screwed her. It's nearly 2 weeks later and he keeps in contact, I ask him what he's wanting but he keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me. He avoids questions, gets angry and it feels like he wants to be around me and at the same time he doesn't. In the mix as well, I'm late and could be pregnant. He knows. He only seems to come visit me when he's hungry and then sits there not even talking to me, when I get angry about it, he gets passive aggressive and tells me he's tired and goes to have a sleep in my room. Im really confused as to what he's doing and wanting.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to move on and break off your relationship with the guy. I mean he cheated on you, and then did it again after you tried to work it out with him. After something like that it's abundantly clear that the guy just isn't going to get his act together.
If you're pregnant then he'll probably be involved as the father, but I wouldn't recommend you letting him be involved with you even if this is the case.1
Most Helpful Girl
If a man ever cheat a women he'll cheat over and over again. The question is what you want, not what he wants cause you know once he cheated you. After so many years you love him I'd say and you could'nt imagine your life without him, I know cause I've been in the same situation. However as for me I took a decision that change my life, the one that I will never let someone to play with my feelings again.1