All this happened while I was away on vacation. It's been 2 months since the break up and now that I'm back home I was wondering if I should write a proper apology email. Not just one that says I'm sorry but explaining why I acted so harshly during the break up. I'm not sure if he's upset, hurt or angry. I know I have apologised twice but they were literally "i'm sorry emails" emails, not exactly pure genuine heartfelt apology emails.
I'm not looking to get together. Is there any point in sending an apology email now?
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Write the email, but understand it is for your closure is all.
You clearly pulled the rug out from under him and hurt him deeply. Don't expect a reply. Understand he is healing. This will re open any healing to that wound and he is probably still very angry.
In time he can read your words and perhaps understand what you are saying.
Once you send it, let him be. Own up to the pain you have inflicted on him. Let him heal and move on with his life.