really need opinions and advice. please be brutally honest. I feel so much guilt and I know its not right. thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
Ongoing relationships, in my view, constitutes effective communication, among other things. Thus, his silence and lack of effort to communicate his intent in regards to the relationship would likely be considered to many as a measure indicative of someone who is moving on.
You are not wrong for assuming that he moved on. Thus, you are not wrong for seeing someone else.
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Most Helpful Girl
Don't feel bad for hooking up with someone. You two were not together and you did nothing wrong. You said so yourself that you were upset, confused and in need emotionally. The guy you were with gave you what you needed in that moment.
Besides, your ex should be more concerned with setting things right with you rather than getting upset. If he truly loves you, he would want to be a better man and try to win you back. Not tell you that what you did was so wrong and now he has to forget about you.
It sounds to me like he's pretty jealous and not really the best thing for you.
in my opinion it's best to let him go and move on. There are many great guys out there who will treat you right and not hurt you physically and emotionally.
Everything is NOT your fault. If anything, it's mainly his fault for how he treated you.