My ex and I just broke up and he wants his stuff back but I would rather throw it out?

My ex and I recently broke up and we were in a serious relationship for over a year. Long story short: we lived together, he cheated on me, he asked me to move out, after 2 months he begged for me to move back in and he changed, things were fine for a bit then he started to physically and mentally abuse me to a point where I had bruises all over and was afraid to get help and run away. I eventually moved back in with my parents.

After weeks of ignoring me he walks into my parents' house as if nothing happened. I told him to leave and get out. He continually threatened me and started saying harsh things like I should die and I'm a waste of life and his car is worth more than my life. He wanted his car part back but I would much rather sell it or throw it out than give it back to him. Is this wrong of me for wanting to do this?


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  • If you do anything with the car part other than give it to him, then you give him an incentive to continue bothering you, to tarnish your reputation ("that crazy bitch did this and this!"), and to file a lawsuit that could cost you serious money. While it is understandable that you would want to get revenge on his pathetic ass, this isn't the way to do it. The best way to get revenge is to get yourself a man that is superior to him.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's not wrong of you, but you should just give it back. Then you will have him out of your life and he won't cone around looking for his stuff. You need this bastard out of your life, he is the waste of space not you

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What Guys Said 4

  • You just return his car part back and ask him to fuck-off of life and never show his face again. By throwing or selling his car part you are creating further problem for urself and may be in near future he may try to do some bad to you. so better give him and ask him to get lost.

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  • Of course it's wrong. You'd be guilty of theft, and it wouldn't change the fact that he's guilty of cheating.
    You lose all credibility when you start doing things wrong too.

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  • Give him his car part back and be done with him.

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    • Exactly. That simple. No need for games or to prolong the inevitable.

What Girls Said 1

  • Just give it back to him if you don't you could get in trouble and he will keep bothering if you sell it or give it away just do the right thing.

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