Most Helpful Girl
It sounds to me like this whole "open door" thing is not really working. It doesn't seem like it will ever work. You need to either break up completely or get back to being totally exclusive. I would recommend the harder of the two though, because after she has made out with this guy and hurt you, it will be incredibly hard for things to go back to the way they were.
Now, I would never judge you for how angry, confused, and jealous you are. Those are actually quite understandable... QUITE understandable, but I cannot give you any magical advice that is just going to make those feelings go away. Feelings like that don't just disappear or get better instantly. They cool off gradually over time. So the best thing to do here is to do just that, give it time. A lot of time. If you are not sure if you are over it, you probably aren't.
Things that will help you but not cure you are staying away from her. Cutting off contact completely. I know this sounds harsh and it may be difficult and painful at the beginning, but if you have the strength to do it, do it... it will help you in the long run and then you will feel better about yourself for it in the future.
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Most Helpful Guy
I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL
Just forget about her she's not good for you. UNfortunately that's how girls. She didn't forget you she may did that to forget you and to prove to her self that she's released from all the ties. I am in the same situation and I am not sure if my ex did that or no but why wait for her to come back. She doesn't worth you.
Try to moveon and meet new girls not for sex but just for fun and feel confident.
Be strong you have better life and girls waiting for you
god help me too