He wanted me to be available for him whenever he wanted but Imma old schooled independent individual who takes my time to even breathe and no one rushes me to do anything lol.. since I didn't always respond his way, he lied to me constantly and assumed I wanted a relationship due to the way I carry myself. No more young men for me smh.. by the way he's my neighbor and Im moving soon lol
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He preferred to have a thing with you on his terms, and you, however, preferred to have it on yours. By the way, by fun, did you mean you had intentions of having a fling? Or, did you mean you simply wanted to hang?
If, by chance you had intentions of having a fling, or both, taking things slow, to many guys, would seem contradictory and ambiguous, as the term is usually indicative of one who wants a meaningful relationship.