We've broken up before in our 2 year relationship. I admit to trying to beg him to stay together which is embarrassing. This time after he said "I don't want you, you're bad for me" he mentioned to maybe call him in 2 weeks and meet for coffee or something... But not to bank on it. I'm working on the no contact rule with him and this is day two. He's said those things to me before and we've gotten back together, so I'm confused. When I'm not pining for him over texts and calls to him, do you think he may wonder what I'm up to and try to contact me?
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Do not get back with him. He is as sentimental as you are about the whole thing, you two aren't in love, you're both infatuated with one another. Your feelings will do nothing of the sort to tell you what is good for you from what is bad for you. A common definition of wisdom is "a good judgment", make a good judgment call and leave it be. You two broke up 3 times for a good reason, it is because you two have had phenomena that will forever denature your future encounters. Just respectfully decline such prospects and focus on whatever answer I gave you last time.0