Most Helpful Girl
Keep asking her to talk and tell her it's not about the sex. Tell her you made a mistake and you want a relationship. Be straight up about it.
Most Helpful Guy
Why not show her that you want both but that you're really moving into a phase that you want it to more about what she wants? you know... make it more about her... I have a question though... you said u both were on and off for like 3 or 4 years... so you both started seeing each other when u were like 15 or something? the ages I see on here are kinda amusing... no offense.