hey I've been in a relationship for about a year. It has its good parts like he takes care of me when I'm sick (and im sick a lot) he byes me diners, flowers ect, takes me out to movies and diner dates.
It has some really dark bad parts that I know I need to get away from like, he smokes pot which I am against, he knows I'm against it and refuse to have sex with him if he's been smoking and the other weekend he smokes he said he really wanted birthday sex and I said "no u chose pot over pussy" he got pissed off and walked out didn't return for at least 3 hours. When returned he refused to tell me where he went when I asked coz I was confused ends up he went to sleep in the spare bed (he's said he will quit smoking when I stop drinking, I only drink socially and don't drink to get drunk). The 1st night I spent with him I had made it known I wanted to wait a few months before having sex with him but he got turned on while kissing me and said it had been along time since he had sex and despite me saying I wanted to wait we had a quickie (yes I gave in but I find it very hard to say no in that situations due to my past and I had spoken to him about my past) but the most disturbing and frightening part and why I am scared of leaving and pissing hi off is his temper. He and I had a fight awhile back and broke up because I cheated (I know its bad I don't need you telling me that)... when I told him he said I'm lucky I didn't tell him in person because he would of hit me. few weeks past and we got back together, about 2 months later we r laying in bed he's trying to get out of bed and I playfully pin him down and he says let me go or ill punch you. I let go, got up and got dressed and was ready to walk out (leave him for good) he apologized and I forgave him, Now I realize looking back I should of kept walking.
How do I leave this toxic relationship without pissing him off?
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I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, If Your Afraid For Your Safety Then Tell Him In An E-Mail, Text, Fone Call, Mail, Or FaceTime. If He Is Not Meeting Up To Your Expectation Then Leave Him & Dont Worry About Him Getting Mad. Your Not Happy In This Relationship So Leave. iSmoke Marijuana So iCant Chastise Him For That But Everything Else Can Be Fixed (My Opinion.) He Seems Violent, No Girl Wants That, Set Aside Your Emotions & Realize This Man Is Not The Man For You & This Relationship Is Unhealthy , Stay Strong & Stay Positive...0