Hey everyone, my girlfriend of 4yrs we were eachothers first love, my girlfriend broke up with me 5wks ago and left me for a guy she met on vacation in which they spent the week together. After the usual begging/chasing she told me I'm wasting my time bc her and this new guy are in love and he's actually moving to her state to move in together and visited her right after the vacation and spent the 3 weeks there. She called me back two days later saying she was confused, not sure if she made right choice and she wasn't over me but tried to convince herself she was and couldn't really be in love with him that quick. She said that they are still together though and taking it slow and not going to move in together and hopes she won't regret her decision forever bc she said she knew we were both truly in love bs , I told her she hurt me to much and we shouldn't be talking right now. I stupidly called her two days later and she said she was being stupid by calling me and that her and this new guy are in "love" and he's permentaly moving to her state and she doesn't want anything to do with me.
Why would she call me and say all that confusion/regret/love BS only to say two days later they are in "love" and moving in together?
Most Helpful Girl
It's because of what you said to her, she wanted you to tell her you wanted her back and everything but you didn't do that so when you called her back, she knew you thought about it and wanted to show you that she can do the same thing you did to her, but even "better". You deserve someone better, not someone who will play with your feelings without even being sure of hers.0
Most Helpful Guy
She doesn't know what she wants. But she'll use you as a safety net if she thinks she can. People usually back step or revert to what is familiar to them.
You guys had what you had, be grateful for that, now it's time to let her go and move on. I wouldn't entertain any type of contact with her especially if you're feeling vulnerable.0