Hey everyone, my girlfriend of 4yrs we were eachothers first love, my girlfriend broke up with me 5wks ago and left me for a guy she met on vacation in which they spent the week together. After the usual begging/chasing she told me I'm wasting my time bc her and this new guy are in love and he's actually moving to her state to move in together and visited her right after the vacation and spent the 3 weeks there. She called me back two days later saying she was confused, not sure if she made right choice and she wasn't over me but tried to convince herself she was and couldn't really be in love with him that quick. She said that they are still together though and taking it slow and not going to move in together and hopes she won't regret her decision forever bc she said she knew we were both truly in love bs , I told her she hurt me to much and we shouldn't be talking right now. I stupidly called her two days later and she said she was being stupid by calling me and that her and this new guy are in "love" and he's permentaly moving to her state and she doesn't want anything to do with me.
Why would she call me and say all that confusion/regret/love BS only to say two days later they are in "love" and moving in together?
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She's a worthless piece of... Just be thankful the cow left you whilst you are still young, she's obviously not worth anything. Ended a 4 year relationship for a guy she met. It isn't love, she was just bored of you, and thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
Move on, I really feel for you, the pain must be unbearable. My ex dumped me recently and started going out with the guy she was "just friends" with. Planned to go and visit him in his own country which is a completely different culture (relationship will not last) whilst she was with me. I gave her my heart, I made her feel like a princess, and instead of trying to connect with me, she sabotaged everything to take the easy route out. I feel so heartbroken as everything with her was a complete waste. But on the upside, there have been a few benefits to my breakup. I've now kicked myself, and changed myself a bit, become a better person, and I strive to be incredibly successful soon as I'm setting out to prove that I will always be better than my stupid ex and her boyfriend, and make her regret her choice to breakup with me as she leads a mediocre life.
I took a chance yesterday and sent a message to an absolutely gorgeous and incredibly nice girl telling her straight that I used to fancy her, and if she'd like to go and get drinks sometime. Turns out it paid off since she agreed which I thought she wouldn't respond to since she is incredibly shy and timid. She literally is stunning, and blasts my ex out the water, considering my ex was quite pretty herself.
Anyway, that is my little story that is ongoing. I'm waiting for the day my ex calls me up regretting her choice as she realises no guy will go to the same effort that I went to for her, treat her as I did, and love her as much as I did. You will find someone better than your ex eventually. I wish you all the best bud.0