so im still in love. we were together for 3 months. she was my first kiss. took my virginity. I lived with her for a month. then she leaves me and said that she had lost feelings two months ago and didn't know how to break it to me... I don't know how one just loses feelings but... I barely think about her but when I do I cut myself and wanna kill myself... id take her back in an instant. but she hasn't come around to thinking of giving me another chance yet... id really like to date but will these feelings just go away? my friends think so because she was my first and that's why I was in love. but I don't know help?
Troubles with an ex. need help or will it go away when I date again?
What Girls Said 1
Let me just say that you were together for three months, and you lived with her for 1 month? Kind of a red flag in a relationship.
You both moved way to quickly in this relationship which had thus made you two go separate ways.
You shouldn't cut yourself and want to kill yourself over a girl. There are many fish in the sea, and many of them would be extremely lucky to be with you. Everyone has their own unique self inside of them. To honestly break it to you, you won't be able to get back with her. She has probably already started talking to other guys since it has been two months since she said she lost the feelings for you.
She saw the real you, and she just didn't think that was her cup of tea. That's okay, shit happens, but it shouldn't be something that you would think to kill yourself over or self harm.
I advise some possible therapy concerning the suicidal thoughts and self harm, and to take a break for a while to collect yourself.
Good luck with everything. xoxo1
What Guys Said 1
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, You Moved Too Fast In The Relationship, Never Move In With Somebody Until You Actually Get To Know Them, Stop Cutting Yourself, Its Never That Serious, A Break-Up Is Tough, LOTS Of People Go through It. Start Doing The Old Things You Use To Do To Help You With The Process. Your Running High On Emotions, Cut All Contact & Move On, Stay Positive & Keep Your Head Held High...0
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