So I was dating this girl for a while and things went a bit bad, she lead me on and I got a bit drunk and said some things. Essentially, we weren't right for each other so we stopped seeing each other.
Thing is I know this fact, but because she was my first proper 'love' and because she is very attractive, whenever I see her face I just feel a shallow regret, wondering what could've been with a girl this good looking.
I'm with someone else now and it's all going really, really well but I still get this weird regret towards this girl I dated whenever she uploads a new picture on Facebook. I try not to feel this way but it's hard. So I was wondering if a lot of people had this? How did you get over it?
Do you ever fully get over exes/first loves?
- NoVote A
- YesVote B
- Initially no, then yes when I am with someone elseVote C
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds to me like you're just shallow. If the reason you get upset and feel rueful is because she is attractive, then yeah, you're just shallow. Most people are shallow because they either have extremely low self worth and project that onto others, or they have never really understood what a real connection is, because if you really love someone it doesn't matter that they aren't super attractive to the rest of the world.0
Most Helpful Guy
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, If The Love Runs Deep, Like Really Deep Its Very Very Difficult To Get Over Them Completely, My Ex Girlfriend Left Me For Another Guy She Works With, We Almost Made It Five Years, She Is Over Me & Happy With Him, iStill Love Her & iAlways Will, Everybody Is Different Tho...0