So I was dating this girl for a while and things went a bit bad, she lead me on and I got a bit drunk and said some things. Essentially, we weren't right for each other so we stopped seeing each other.
Thing is I know this fact, but because she was my first proper 'love' and because she is very attractive, whenever I see her face I just feel a shallow regret, wondering what could've been with a girl this good looking.
I'm with someone else now and it's all going really, really well but I still get this weird regret towards this girl I dated whenever she uploads a new picture on Facebook. I try not to feel this way but it's hard. So I was wondering if a lot of people had this? How did you get over it?
Do you ever fully get over exes/first loves?
- NoVote A
- YesVote B
- Initially no, then yes when I am with someone elseVote C
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I was thinking about this too and i just gotten over my first "love" ish... your first love is that person you decide to give that many f*cks to. Out of 7 billion you chose this person and when its all over you feel like no one else can really match up to that person... Honestly it all depends how you look at it.. Yes this girl will be a stain in your heart but this is life. No your not going to be thinking about this girl when you see the actual love of your life walk down that aisle for you, but this person will always be there. When two people love eachother that strong, honestly they just can't be apart. If this girl walked out its because she wasn't meant to be with you. Teenagers dont really know this answer but i know some grandparents or older adults and if i ever ask them they say, "honestly i forgot about them, they were a big deal for a while but now time, life, family everything changed it." It kind of doesn't matter anymore when you hold your baby girl for the first time and look into her helpless eyes, it doesn't matter anymore when you wipe off the tears from her eyes when a boy broke her heart for the first time and you tell her everything will be ok, and it defiantly doesn't matter when your daughter gets married and you lived a full life. Yeah it sucks now but time changes things. Anyways you'll share these stories with your love one day and she's gonna share hers.. dont worry you both cheated on each other. Life goes on no matter who was with you, just forget and be glad it was with her you had a proper love and not someone carrying STDs...0