My ex-girlfriend is now dating my best friend. I told both of them I didn't mind as long as she was happy. Besides I have my own girlfriend... But seeing them together is just bringing my sex drive low and I don't even want to have sex with my girlfriend or I'll feel sick. I know I don't have feelings for her because I left her due to me not having any feelings anynore after a year of dating. I don't know what it is. When he touches her or we go on double dates I feel depressed and angry. My girlfriend even called me out and said I stare at her too much. She even gave me a second chance. Why do I keep acting like this? Its not like I still love her or anything when I dumped her.
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Even though you don't love her doesn't mean you aren't over her completely. It takes time to get over the fact that the person you use to love isn't this big part of your life anymore. You probably still need time to get over her. You know you are truly over the person when e. g. you hear a song that reminds you of your time with the person without it hurting anymore.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the same time it isn't fair to your current gf that you are like this. Maybe don't hang out with your friend as much when she is around. And tell him that even though you and your ex aren't together anymore it's still weird when she's around so he can be more mindful in not bringing her home when you are there etc. I mean after all your best friend is going out with your ex! So he should respect your wish.0