Most Helpful Guy
you will have so many opportunities to meet a guy in college whether it be community or university. and yes you will find someone trust me. just wait until college, that's what you have to do. when you find that nice guy then you can show your mom and she will probably be very pleased:)
Most Helpful Girl
Do I understand it, that he chatted you up on facebook? asked you within a few days three times to "hang out", called you baby and then ignored you only after three days? I have been there as well, when my mother was the most annoying person in the world, who forbid me to go out. But looking back, I see where this is coming from and I must say, I understand your mother. Who is this guy? I highly doubt that he wants to "hang out". He looked for an easy opportunity to have sex, and since you were't available he immediately moved on. This sounds extremly suspicious and I think its good you did not meet him. I understand your sadness completely, I myself have been there many times when I felt I finally got attention from a guy., but as BertMacklinFBI said, you will meet a guy. You will meet many guys in person and they will be nice. And then you will look back and be happy you did not fall for this sleezy creep.
And please do not ever say that it is usually the women's fault. In a relationship there are two people and many reasons for breakup, sometimes it's him, sometimes her but most often both.