- move on
- keep pursuing reconciliation
Most Helpful Girl
I think whats happening here is that you're being a bit controlling. Now, I obviously don't know you, I'm just going off of your description so please don't take it the wrong way. I think she's "over it" because like you said, she has heard it all before, and doesn't want a repeat of her mistakes of possibly going back and dealing with this again. Usually when someone goes through something in the past, and it comes up again in the present, they know how to deal with it because they learned before how to go about it. I think you should stop texting her, stop calling her. Possibly turn your phone off and relax a bit. Take some time to reflect, see a movie, go off with friends, join the gym, keep yourself occupied and give her her space to think and reflect and see if this is what she really wants. With you bombarding her with texts and calls, believe it or not, that actually disgusts girls and turns them off way more than you may realize. The girl needs space to think and appreciate you. Only time will tell, but don't hold your breath on this one. I think you're being too hopeful and I also think you're beating yourself up over your mistakes in the relationship. Understand that everything happens for a reason, and if you guys were arguing so much, then maybe you clashed and it wasn't meant to be right now. Possibly in the future maybe you can start back, but just do your thing, and enjoy life. Don't let this consume you.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, Allow Her To Come Back On Her On, iGuess You Know You Can't Force This Relationship So Stop Trying, If She Wants To Reconcile Then She Will, If Not Then You Know What Not To Do In Your Next Relationship...