Most Helpful Girl
I can't imagine having a relationship with someone if my spouse just died. I've seen a few people I know go through this, including my own mother - it 100% has to do with her spouses death. She is not emotionally available and she's being honest. It's not the right time, it's not you. She is telling you that she knows you are a good guy and that she loves you, but she cannot give you what you're looking for. You will end up getting hurt in the end. Maybe you guys will connect in the future, when she had grieved and gone through the healing process.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, Sounds Like She Just Jumped Into The Relationship Too Fast, If You Wanna Be With Her Then Give Her Time & Just Be Her Friend...