things ended because he had commitment issues, but he has started trying to get in touch in touch with me again in weird ways. After six months of no contact (and never seeing each other) he called from his friend's phone, then a day later at like 2 am, then two months later (a few days ago) he calls at 1030 pm and then sends me a text asking hey whats up. after all this time, hey whats up? it's just weird and I don't get it. is he ready to commit now? I haven't responded at all, the last thing he said to me was disrespectful and I told him to forget my number. I know he was mad because he had gotten jealous of another guy. I feel like if he's ready to commit it could work...
- call/text him backVote A
- hold out for more initiation on his part, like an apologyVote B
Most Helpful Guy
"Call or text him back"? "Hold out for an apology"?
Wow, you ARE young.
Look over your shoulder. That person you know, but don't talk to because you had a boy/girlfriend; they want to go out with you.
He / She is an Ex for a reason. Try to move on. "Nothing makes a fish escaping your boat more crazy than you bringing another fish aboard." And I don't mean for you to do that in order to make your "Ex" jealous. No, that would be you just being pathetic. Honestly, find someone else.
Oh, and to answer the question (as if it were not obvious): Never. It is never a good idea to take an Ex back.0
Most Helpful Girl
I just went through the same thing so I am the perfect person to answer this! I will not insult you so don't worry:) My ex dumped me after 9 months- he was mean and disrespectful as well. Two months later, he started contacting me wanting to see me. Part of it was because he found out I was dating someone else. Long story short, I took the bait and how did it turn out? Disastrous. He played mind games with me and I got hurt and rejected a second time. That chapter is closed - move on. That disrespectful person that you remember is still who he is. Don't set yourself up for more heartache. I know is very tempting but be strong. Trust me, you'll thank me later:)0