things ended because he had commitment issues, but he has started trying to get in touch in touch with me again in weird ways. After six months of no contact (and never seeing each other) he called from his friend's phone, then a day later at like 2 am, then two months later (a few days ago) he calls at 1030 pm and then sends me a text asking hey whats up. after all this time, hey whats up? it's just weird and I don't get it. is he ready to commit now? I haven't responded at all, the last thing he said to me was disrespectful and I told him to forget my number. I know he was mad because he had gotten jealous of another guy. I feel like if he's ready to commit it could work...
- call/text him backVote A
- hold out for more initiation on his part, like an apologyVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think its a good idea at all move forward not backwards. A person with commitment issues isn't going to all of a sudden be ready in six months I have been in your shoes. Your ex does not want to lose you or see you with someone else neither does he want to settle down. When an ex calls out of the blue at that time of the morning or text its a booty call and nothing more. Sure he may miss you but he is trying to boost his ego by seeing if you will take him back. That is not fair and you deserve better.0
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