I was with a guy for 2 years and we were on the verge of breakup for a while. Why has he moved onto a new girl so quickly? It's been a week and he told me yesterday that she is amazing and that she was waiting for him. He also said that she 'stole' him and that she's already done so much for him already. It really hurts because it seems like that whole 2 years meant nothing to him and he seems completely fine. I can't imagine being with anyone else, but he already is. I just don't get it, it's so hard to accept but I know I can't do anything about it. The girl he is talking about is an old close friend of mine, and she knew we were together for that time and I don't see how she can do it either.
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It's usually easier for the one who breaks up because they've usually been thinking about it a while, so already had time to mentally process, move on and in some cases to line up someone new. Whereas the poor dumpee usually gets taken more by surprise, and has not already been investing time in finding someone else.
@"she's already done so much for him already"
It's really callous and self-absorbed to say stuff like that to your ex-gf, wow. I mean, even if it's true, you don't say things like that - if you have any sense of caring or thinking about the feelings of other people around you, it should be obvious.1