has anyone split up and gotten back together with an ex? after how long and what happened?
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I've broken up with my ex and then gotten back together with him and I regret it actually it wasn't the best decision I had made. Something was telling me to just keep on walking but instead I walked towards him. I personally wouldn't recommend breaking up with an ex and then getting back together with him. Because I believe that an ex is an ex for a reason. And I also agree that some people deserve second chances but not the same mistakes. I had broken up with him in August 2013 it was like the first week of school I was in 10th he was in 9th. It was because of commitment issues and I was doing my part but he wasn't doing his part. So for 5 months we didn't talk and then in January 2014 he got back together with but he didn't last very long. I learned a very valuable lesson from going back to an ex. I learned that you just get hurt in the end. He pretty much led me on like played with my feelings and then left for me like no reason. He broke up with me but he left me confused. And I didn't understand why because he was the one that wanted me back. I wish I hadn't done what I had done something was telling me to walk away from him. I cared about him a lot, and I loved him a lot, but he treated me like a dog. He always said he missed me but never came by to see me. Said he loved me but never showed me. I like guys that show you that they love you and don't just say it. And plus I didn't even ask for a lot from him honestly I didn't I just asked that he would do his part. I do believe that I deserve better and I know I do now that I have realized that. I deserve something that actually shows that they love me, cares about me, can make me smile, etc. I believe that a relationship is like a full time job. Like don't apply if you can only do part time. That person doesn't want half of you or part of you that want all of you. I don't think he is mature enough for a relationship for something serious. Like he doesn't know what love is honestly I'm so happy I moved on.0