I had a boyfriend for 1½ year. For a week ago, I started to feel, like he didn't loved me and didn't want to be in the relationship anymore. On saturday, I had to ask him, if it was true, or not. Then he said, that he didn't love me... It really broke my heart. I know it hasn't been a long time since, but I would just know how you guys got over a breakup.
I miss him so much, but can't make him love me! </3
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Your mind may be trapped in thoughts of him for a while. Two ways I know to remedy this - fantasy of other potential partners and mentally engaging activities.
Study other potential romantic and sexual partners - doing so will make you more distinctly aware of that your former partner is not the only option and draw into greater light what faults he may have had. Have conversations with other men.
Spend time doing activities that require careful attention - the less attention you would be able to pay to netflix were you doing it simultaneously, the better. For myself, I do woodwork design and building, as design takes careful decisions and one tends to look at his tool as he is cutting, for obvious reasons.
Abandon all hope of getting back together - recognize it would not be a pleasant experience. Such is a resurgent venom that will prolong your pain.
I hope this helps to abbreviate your pain. This is an unpleasant time - it cannot be skipped but it can truncated.0