What's the longest relationship you've had and why did it end?

I know we've all been through it, but what's the longest most promising relationship you had that turned into dust?

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  • 12 years, married for 10 years. She relapsed into alcohol & drugs for the 3rd time, got into serious legal trouble, & nearly got my now 10 yr old son killed. I took full custody of my son & divorced her. Haven't seen or heard from her in over a year. Pretty sure my son & I are better off.

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  • 5 years we met in middle school and I gave him my number texted me and said he liked me more than a friend. So we hooked up and started going out but I never really got to know him. He ended the relationship with me in March but he didn't really have any good reasons they were mostly excuses. The relationship turned into dust because I was always doing my part and supporting him and everything but him on the other hand treated me like I was a dog or a slave, he didn't give me that affection that I wanted. Its like he didn't know what a relationship is or what love is. Its like I had to force words through his head and I just started running out of what to say and it was getting nowhere. He basically didn't do his part at all, he started drinking in 2013 and then from then on he just changed right out of the blue. I personally can't date someone that drinks alcohol it puts stress on me and I have trouble sleeping and stuff. I personally didn't ask for a lot in the relationship just asked for him to do his part. I am now a junior in high school and he's a sophomore we don't talk whatsoever its pretty much awkward eye contact then and there. But I think it was for the best I don't know why I was stupid I wish I had gotten to know him better and didn't just jump. I've lost feelings for him and everything and I'm proud of myself because it wasn't easy. It took baby steps for me I just went slowly. I don't deserve him and he doesn't deserve me, I deserve someone so much better.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Half a year, emotions died out, her family hated me and wouldn't let her be around me as much. Plus she was against the sexual side of the relationship because of religious beliefs.

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  • Four Years & Ten Months, She Dumped Me For A Guy She Works With...

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  • Fourteen very good years. Well, sixteen if you count the two we spent before we married. She died.

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  • 4 years. Then I joined a military outfit and was never home enough. Came back, joined a law enforcement specialist outfit, and they killed her instead of me. She's what I think about when I get up and go to bed. And yes it says 18-24, I've done a lot in my life, so don't ask.

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    • Who exactly killed her?

    • Not everyone is a fan of Law enforcement and since they couldn't touch me, they took the one thing that meant the most to me, more than my life.

What Girls Said 2

  • 3 years - he was the best friend of a very famous musician and was much older than me. I loved him but he had an addiction problem that became too much for me to handle and I had to leave. We still keep in touch but he is in the last stages of Parkinson's Disease sadly...

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  • 2 years. He went to jail.

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    • Why did he go to jail?

    • Gun charger, coke charge and someone lied on him about something else. He got off on the drug and gun charges both could have been a 10yr sentence. He only got 7 years for what the guy lied about and that carried a max of 10 years. White privilege.

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