How do you get over a break up when it's not because you don't love each other?
What Guys Said 3
I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, You Can Become Friends Later In Life But Not Now, Trust Me, Cut All Contact & Allow Your Feelings To Die Down...
Lol well if you're still talking to him thats just going to make it take longer imo. I don't know I get over stuff like this really quickly, keep yourself busy with something.
Have realistic expectations. As there is no magic potion to speed up the healing process. It takes a great of amount of time and patience to recover fully from a breakup with someone who've meant much to you. Time alone, time dwell, time to let go emotionally, and time to transition.
Also, accept the situation for what is, no matter how distorted the picture becomes at times, you guys are simply not compatible, for whatever reason. That, and the suggestions mentioned by the others.
As for dealing with your guy, I read somewhere that going absolute no-contact can be less effective than remaining in contact. The sudden, silent loss of someone important can actually perpetuate the pain of a breakup. And since the breakup was amicable, I suggest, that you at least consider a gradual pullback, if possible.
If not for you, then do it just to help him out.
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