How to get over someone you still like? (please help)

There's this girl and I've liked her for 2 years now.

She almost became my girlfriend but from one day to another, she told me she only wanted me as friends. (that was one year ago)

She's so pretty so wherever she goes there are always many guys that flirt with her and that makes me feel even worse.

We don't speak anymore but we see each other because we go to the same school.

Please, I need help, i don't want to like her anymore. :c

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  • As hard as it Might be, and being it's even Harder to 'Get over someone you like,' because of the fact 'We go to the same school,' is going to make it Longer to Get over her, to move on. But you are going to have to suck it up, be strong And----Avoid her like the Plague, If all possible.
    Try and Not go where she is, unless it is Absolutely necessary, and when you happen to see 'Always many guys that flirt with her,' then Look away, keep your eyes and head straight ahead.
    Rome wasn't built in a day, as you have heard, and 'Don't want to like her anymore' is basically in this same category. It's going to take some time, being you are subjected to Same school, but in time as this Does eventually heal all wounds, and maybe concentrating on Other things, Another girl included, Is just what the doctor ordered.
    Good luck, hang in there... xx

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  • I know the feeling buddy. It's hard to just get over someone you like and it's not that simple. However, if you don't talk anymore, that's a good start. Go do something to occupy your time to where you won't be thinking about her. Learn to play a guitar, get a gym membership, do something that interests you and make a hobby. It takes time but it will happen and you'll end up meeting up girls anyway. Keep your head up and good luck.

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  • I think we've all been there at some point. From my experience you cannot force yourself to unlike someone over night or put a time limit on eradicating that person from your memory I think this is a time thing. It'll take time. Patience is key! And remember new opportunities come through in life so who knows maybe within the next week or day or month there will be new opportunities and you'll have other things to occupy your mind and time. Everything will work out fine! Don't sweat it!

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  • The easiest way to push out a crush is to not go where you know she's going to be. I know you probably know her schedule and everything right now. So when you see her, try to pay her no mind. Be with your other friends. Find someone that you can project your feelings onto.

    I think the easiest was is to find another person that you like.

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  • I went through the same thing. We went to school together and had the same social circle. It took awhile, but I did not rebound and avoided him as much as possible without sacrificing all my social life yet still not being in too many awkward situations. I took time off from dating, hook ups included, because all that does is delay the closure process. I spent time on me. Found new hobbies, met new people, and during this time I had to ignore 18 months if texts and calls from him as well. I reached a point where I felt 100% confident in closure of the situation with him. And within 3 months I met the guy I am still with 3 years later and could not be happier, especially since that guy I got over, once I knew I was over it, talked to him. And he's now one of my closest friends and we help each other with male and female perspectives with our current relationships. And I was crazy about him after a short relationship and then after from 16 to 23. So give it time. And personally, I'd skip the rebounds and choose you time and time with friends. You get more out if it and get to closure faster. Wishing you the best! :)

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  • There's no actual way to get over her whenever you want, fast.. Because obviously she's on your mind 24/7. The only way that you will get over her is with TIME and patience and faith. Just think about it this way: in a year, or more.. Or even LESS she won't even be your problem anymore. Besides, your under 18! Meaning you have your whole life ahead of you and that your going to meet plenty of other girls. Its just a phase.

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  • I've been through that with a guy and I made the mistake to tell my friend who told and asked him and he said he didn't like me that way. I cried for 4 hrs then for a yr. I was sad everytime I saw him. I'm sorry to say what made me get over him was noticing what I didn't like about him. And realizing I could do so much better than him. And finding someone who likes you really and truly. I hope you do find that special someone.

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  • rebound rebound rebound.
    this doesn't have to be sexual. but let the person know this is just a rebound. i have read articles in college psych about how rebounds are actually really healthy and should happen after a relationship. rebounds take off the pressure and take off any stress about the future.

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  • It depends on u. You should convince yourself to finally move on. If u cant, tgrnlet time heal all the wounds. Give yourself a break. Join some fun activities, meet new friends, or travel. Its not easy to get over something that mean so much to you. Stop clinging on to it. Start thinking that not all those things that you have will be permanently be yours. Accept that it will be gone someday. Learn from it and move forward

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  • You go out and try to find someone else to fancy. Or focus on her ugly inner side (if she has one) and you will feel less impressed of her.
    For example, if she hates fat people and told you how she wants to vomit or cannot eat anymore when she sees a fat person or made mean jokes about mean, focus on how cruel she is towards some people.

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  • You just need to occupy yourself with other stuff that's really all you can do. Set a personal goal and focus on that. It really just takes time and one day you'll wake up and realize you have't though about her in months.

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  • You need to detox this girl from your system, and that means no contact and not seeing her for as long as you can. Out of sight for as long as you can means that each day that goes by, the easier it is to curb your feelings. Schools are big - so go somewhere else at school that you can spend time while you're getting through this. Even if it's for one week, do it. In class, sit no where near her if you share a class together. Ignore her, don't look at her. If you think of her, start thinking of a celebrity crush you have just to get something else on your mind while you get rid of the thought of her. Remind yourself that she's not the one. Think of her with chocolate stuck in her teeth or toilet paper hanging out of her pants.

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What Guys Said 8

  • I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, Nothing You Can Do To Just Get Over Her In A Blink Of An Eye, Time Is The Key Factor & Along With Time Do Things That Make You Happy. Stay Strong & Stay Positive...

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  • From my experience when you have someone that you truly deeply deeply love you never get over you kind of have to compartmentalize it and put it in the back your head and just deal with it so I wish there was an easier way to deal with it. PLURR

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  • What you do is, you take a pic of them over to a photo kiosk and print out a good poster size of it. Hang it up on your wall, get a sharpie and draw funny crap all over their face. Then go buy some darts

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  • There are 2 options:
    a.) Find another girl.
    or
    b.) Find some awesome online video game, especially if it's MMORPG. You'll forget about women in no time.

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  • It's the old cliché, time. It sucks but in time you'll find someone else.

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  • Get out the laptop and just fap to your hearts content

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  • im currently in this same situation lol

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  • Two things time and/or a new girl.

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