do I just have to expect the reality that its over and she is gone , maybe gone for good at this point and that she doesn't even want to be friends at all?
Most Helpful Girl
Why do you care? It's your ex. This is expected. Do you want her back?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes to your last question. Do not contact her in any way shape or form. If she wants to entertain the idea of reconnecting, she will contact you. Any attempt to reach out on your part will only push her further away. I know it sucks, but it's just the way it is man.