hi. im 30 years old. i dumped my 25 year old gf that i been with for 4 years. i found out she cheated on me with 3 guys all at the same time. i confronted her about it she denied denied denied. i showed all the explicit photos of all 3 guys i found in her phone and she was quiet. she seemed emotionless very non chalant like brushing it off when she finally confessed. i calmly made her feel like crap. i wasn't even angry about anything. i felt sorry for her. 10 minutes later i told how much i cared for her and loved her just for the hell of it, maybe to see what she would say. she eventually started crying. she admitted of messing up. she said she had the freedom to do it and so she did it. i wiped her eyes walked to her door and told her as much i wanted to stay and be with you, i got to go. and i left. did i handle that well?
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Most people would kill to have ended things in such a good term. I do understand that's an awful situation, and you probably still care about her. And that's where people go wrong: because they still deeply care about the other person, they want to forgive and try to work things out. But the reality is that once you're a cheater, the chances are, you'll always be one. And if you really liked that person to begin with, the thought of being with someone else would never occur to you.
You did exceptionally well. To do what you did takes the utmost strength, maturity, kindness and patience. It wasn't your loss, it was hers, and you showed that to her. She's the one losing for letting someone like you walk away!1