I do not want any negative criticism. No bashing please, just don't answered. I would love advice from people that have been in this situation who understands what I'm feeling and going through.
We have been friends for four years before he got married and just recently (2 months ago) our relationship started developing on a different level. I first have to say that I never throughout our friendship felt this way for him. I encouraged him to marry the girl, was happy for him when they got married and also when he had his son. They have been married for a year and half and we started sleeping together last month. We have sex almost 3 times a week (unprotected). I never saw myself getting involved in something like this and now I'm struggling to get out. I've tried ignoring him, blocking his calls and texts but then he'll email me at work saying he misses me and loves me. He says that he has always liked me but I was stuck on my ex. If that's the case why won't he just leave this girl! I'm way better looking (she looks like a chipmunk and Popeyes) more educated, have a great personality which he says that he loves. I just don't understand. And to make matters worst, he just bought a house. I was mad and told him that he's never leaving since they just bought a house, his response was who are y'all? I just bought a house. I'm not dumb, I know they both bought that house and not just him. Please help! This hurts
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I am a guy and I was exactly like your date was hurtinbg for both of us. I loved her but I also couldn't leave my wife. He won't leave her and if he did he wil regret it and leave you later. I don't advice you build your new life on someone else life. I completely understand your situation and I know how hard is it. The girl I was ddating was my only love story in my life but unfortunately I couldn't make it happen. I can't tell the whole story here but you can message me and we can chat later. You can stay as you are but know that will end eventually and ignore whatg happenning in his life or just cut it now and see what he will do. Good luck and take care.3
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