My boyfriend and I didn’t talk really the rest of the night. I tried to apologize after I realized that I f—ed up. I should have never said anything to him. I didn’t see them flirting at all with my own eyes, and just on impulse started an issue that wasn’t even there.
I ended up having to stay in another bridesmaids trailer with her and her boyfriend. My boyfriend must’ve left sometime before the morning. Needless to say, he wants nothing to do with me now. This is not the first time I have caused an issue after drinking by having jealousy issues. I have no idea what to do. I have a lump in my throat and just want to go back in time and do everything so different.. I am crazy and he doesn’t deserve to be stuck with me.
Is there anything I can do to fix this? I have tried to apologize to both him and Ann. So far no responses. I wouldn’t blame either of them for never talking to me again. I think I’ve really crossed the line now. I just don't know what to do.
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I am very familiar with your situation, sweetie, and let me tell you why. I have a sister, who since 13, has been a drinker, on and off throughout her life and even now as I write this----Still drinking to beat the band. She has made scenes with family in restaurants, causes strife in our family with her rude and crude antics and actions And---Big mouth------And even has set the 'Other side' after her, and with this I mean----Cops, Bosnians in a gang, and even was let go of a few jobs, estranged from time to time from family and friends, and even with me----The jealousy shows up like a cat on a hot tin roof.
It's been hard to deal with for many years, and her husband even now does nothing but Enable her. It's easier for him than putting up with her pie eyed problem.
I am telling you this because you are still young, but never too 'Young' Nor Old to learn from someone who knows what it's like to have someone in your life---Cross the line.
I feel for you, like I do for my sister, and I think, so there is no more problems in the future, that if it is All possible, get some help for your drinking, so life can be a bit Easier for you, and no one has the cause to stop------Talking to me again.
Don't be so hard on yourself, it will just want you to pick up a bottle and drown all your sorrows. My sister does it every day, and even with a good man, a good life, it's just a 'problem' now, rather than an 'Afternoon delight.'
Give things some time. You have done all the "I'm sorry's" you can for now. Give them both a chance to cool down, and if you don't hear a response, you can try again pushing another button to tell them again how you feel. If no one forgives you, if no one wants to hear it, then you will know it is an issue that Must be dealt with very soon. And even if one or Both do return in response, you will also know you have a true blue forgiving bf, along with a non fair weather friend, to be beside you as you go for some godly guidance.
Good luck. xx