She is a Jr in highschool and I'm a freshman at a local community college so its not like we are far away, she says that I need to focus on my life, and. That i need to move on, we have been dating 5 months, yesterday she said that we need to take a few weeks break, then later that day she said she wanted to kiss and dance with me, even asking me to a dance, today she said that we shouldn't keep seeing each other beings we are both on desperate chapters on our life, she said that this is goodbye, but she also said that I can see her Friday, what should I do?
- should i pursue herVote A
- should i let her goVote B
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Unfortunately, it is totally possible, and not uncommon, for someone to still love their significant other and break up with them. This girl seems to care for you (hence her wanting to see you and saying she wants to kiss you etc.), but she obviously feels that something is keeping her from you. Personally, I think you should let her go, or at least tell her that she needs to decide what she seriously wants before she completely breaks it off or goes back with you. It isn't fair to you to see her and hear from her all the time if she isn't in it 100% Good luck :)0