Me and my girlfriend went through a rough patch. We were saying for a year and a half and everything was going perfect. Up until the middle of our relationship I was the perfect boyfriend. But then jealousy reared it's ugly head. I started getting insecure and jealous over the most random things which led to an unbelievable amount of fighting and then ultimately breaking up. She gave me some bs excuse that she needed to find herself which was fine. I gave her the space she needed. We still kept in contact regularly because we were best friends before and after the break up.
Neither of us went to anyone else or moved on, we both were and still are in love with each other.
Here we are 7 months after the break up. Everything is going perfect and we are happy as we can be. But she's worried about going back out with me because she thinks I haven't changed. She has serious depression problems and the fighting puts an emotional toll on her that she has serious trouble dealing with.
Everytime I have a dull look on my face or im too quiet she automatically assumes that I'm pissed and she will put her guards up automatically. Me and her came to the conclusion that she has a lot of resentment towards me. She doesn't know how to control it or stop it. Any advice would be very helpful.
Side note: I haven't been getting jealous about anything. I've been staying strong and in a sense I am the same person she first started dating. No fighting or jealousy. She just doesn't want to get into a relationship with me because of this. I need help.