Ex boyfriend of 9 months broken up for barely 6 months engaged to girl before me? I'm really struggling with my emotions about this, I feel really humiliated and embarrassed as we broke up at the beginning of the year, he just moved his stuff out one day without telling me. We were also engaged before we broke up. He kept telling me he was over her she left town to be with her babies father and there wasn't anyone else. He got a job in the oilfield so our relationship was a bit stressful at the end. I supported him when he had no one (she sure was no where around) and made sure I cooked and tried to be a good woman to him. Then he tells me I took him for granted because we argued. I opened up my home to him, basically tried to show him a woman can hold him down. Before we broke up, he tells me I'm everything a man would want, he posts on fb that im caring, amazing and supportive. When I confronted him about the engagement he basically took those words back like he never said it! We recently had been seeing each other for three months again an he never mentioned being with anyone. We were together last Wed night and he proposed to her on Saturday? I knew I shouldn't have been seeing him but I was still really inlove with him. He claims now that he is unsure of his feelings for me. he must be sure that there aren't any now that he's engaged so why can't he tell me that? Now he is being really cruel and cold, basically making me feel like a *****. Why does he hate me?
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Don't take anything this man does personally. It is very sad, but there are some people out there who can hurt people like this and are only out for their own interests. He can't decide who he wants and he's trying to have his cake and eat it too. It doesn't mean you're not enough or worth it. Trust me. I know of a man who was playing 3 girls at a time, these were all beautiful girls who could have anyone. He ended up marrying and getting one pregnant, and still plays her when she is a great mom to his kids. None of these girls deserve it.
Your ex reminded me instantly of him. I would always wonder what could possibly make these girls who have so much going for them, fall for him? He just has something about him I guess. He knows how to make people love him. He probably has a lot of issues deep down that cause him to treat others like this. maybe he doesn't even realize how much it hurts you.. just don't believe you deserve it. There are a lot of men out there who wouldn't do this to you. You got lucky and dodged a bullet. Don't even answer his calls. Make him realize he lost you and never look back!!0