I have just found out my boyfriends been cheating on me, I honestly do think he loved me, but then why would he have been cheating on me all this time if he really did?
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The caveat of small sample size obviously applies, but I find it really interesting that most men feel it's a "yes", and most women conversely feel that it's a "no".
For me, I think that a person who cheats might possibly still feel love SOMEWHERE in their heart for their partner, but they are no long IN love with them. There's no room there for infidelity and betrayal like this, in my opinion.
I don't typically like dealing in absolutes, but this is one of those areas where I feel it's pretty black and white; being in love with someone completely and fully means that your hearts and bodies belong to one another completely and FULLY, and that's that. Period, end of story.1