I've been dating this guy for 2 months now... Now in our first week of dating I found out he was contacting his ex friend with benefit telling her he wants to see her after work (he would also see me because while his parents were on vaca I lived there, which was hell btw) I saw the texts and from there on out he swore he blocked her then made another attempt to contact her then on instagram talked to her and said they were just friendly talking. Anyways after that he deleted her off that too. I forgave him for that. We have each other all social media passwords and he used my old messages against me. One message my ex called me babe and he said I didn't do anything to stop it so I was horrible? Guilt tripping me like crazy was his talent. I was like I never had intention to do anything with him at least you were seeking your ex friends with benefits and he still said that was the worst thing I could have done. Another time I remember we were at the park and I saw an old friend and he came up we started talking for one minute and he got furious saying he felt stupid just standing there and accused me of having a relationship with him. We usually fight once a day and he makes me feel horrible. He says he wants a kid and to start a family (I'm iffie) and he sees me everyday. Oh and the reason why living with him was hell because if I got upset by the way he yelled at me for not cleaning his whole house while he was at work and having food prepared he would go to bed angry for me complaining and wake up and expect sex. last night I really had the last straw when he came to visit me at the usual night time hour since his dad comes off work at that time (btw I have a tracker on his phone and vice versa and were always texting) so I know it's not a lie... And I bought him chick fil a prepared him soup and green tea latte. I usually SNEAK him over cause my dad doesn't know we're together (strict dad issues)
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He is soooo emotionally abusive. Get out of this mess. This is a total mess of control, insecurity and emotional abuse.
He cries and takes a pic of himself when you try to leave? How cute. Keep walking!0