Most Helpful Guy
I started hanging out with all my phone contacts, you see what you need is time to heal, so you want get busy with stuff you like. I took a French class and started playing guitar again. Also I decided to go to a new place every week, doesn't matter where. Or do something you never done before.
It's hard I know. But time will heal you wound. Good luck :)
Most Helpful Girl
Focus on YOURSELF and don't let thoughts of him get in your head. My ex and I were together for 5 years we met in middle school and dated throughout high school. I'm a junior and he is a senior. He broke up with me for stupid reasons mainly commitment issues and he left me confused. It took me 5 months to get over him and it was easy because we go to the same school together but I barely see him which is good. I just don't talk to him or anything I walk right past him like I don't even see him. Give yourself time to heal, my ex was my first love and for it was hard getting over my first love. But I mean if you have tried all that you can in the relationship and its still not clicking my advice would be to move on. Go out and hang out with your friends, go to the movies, do things you love. It took baby steps for me, it was hard cause I was weak in my knees and couldn't even walk but with time I healed. He treated me like dirt, he led me on and then he just left me right out of the blue. I see his true colors and by true colors I mean I see what he really is in my eyes, he's a player and he flirts with almost every girl and he just goes around asking girls for there numbers so I believe its good that I'm not with him anymore. If he wants to flirt then he must be asking to stay single. I understand its hard and its not easy but you give it time and you won't even remember him. I'm so proud of myself, I don't know why I was so stupid something told me that it was a trap when he came up to me and told me he loved me. They only say those things because they know that's an easy way to get you to come back. I've learned a lot from my last relationship and it has taught me so much. I'd rather get to know a guy then just pour my heart out to him I never got to know my ex I just jumped not asking why. I hope everything works out for you and I hope you give yourself time to heal. If you ever need any advice I'm always here.