My question is how can I get her to be my actual girlfriend without pushing it on her?
Note: we broke up cuz I was a jealous insecure boyfriend.
Talk to her. It's that simple. Talk about a title. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend just take it from there. Maybe she thinks you assume you're dating. It's also possible that she's afraid of a title because that puts too much pressure oh you guys
I'm Going To Give You My Professional Unlicensed Opinion, You can't Just Make Her Your Girlfriend If She doesn't Want It, If It You Want It To Be More Serious Then Tell Her Straight Up, If She Rejects You Then Stop All This No Title Crap & Move On...
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