Anyone ever had an affair with a married man in which you fell in love with? How did it end? My guy has only been married for a year but I love him. I wish I didn't fall for him because of want us together and not him with the wife. Why is he cheating anyway? Is he not happy? I have tried telling him that we have to end but he won't let it go. Anyone been in this situation that can offer their advice?
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Ignore that below, you didn't wreck a home. He did. For what ever reason he stepped out on his wife, and made his own choices.
What's concerning is the lack of respect he has for you and the lack of respect you have for yourself. He hasn't tried to hide his marriage from you so he obviously felt that you would be the kind of woman who would be comfortable being an add-on or second place (side chick). He also told you that he won't leave his wife (that he obviously doesn't actually love), so you know that you're not good enough to leave his wife for.
Think of it this way
You're not his wife.
You're not his girlfriend.
You're his mistress.
And no one in this thinks that you deserve better.3
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