Anyone ever had an affair with a married man in which you fell in love with? How did it end? My guy has only been married for a year but I love him. I wish I didn't fall for him because of want us together and not him with the wife. Why is he cheating anyway? Is he not happy? I have tried telling him that we have to end but he won't let it go. Anyone been in this situation that can offer their advice?
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Look, if he's with you because he's unhappy- then you've got a problem. If he's with you because he likes the thrill of the 'other woman'- you've got a problem. If he's with you because "you're the one soulmate that he just met too late- you've got a problem. Because no mater what happens- if he leaves his wife or stays with his wife. The damage is already done. You'll be upset if he leaves because he'll be dealing with mountains of guilt or be upset that he let down his family and no longer has the friendship of his wife. And if he stays with his family- you'll be upset that he's still with his wife. So it's going to be hard- but the easiest way is to leave.1