I've been with a guy for the past 5 months, and he adores me. The thing is though, that recently I have realised he isn't the guy for me. He drinks excessively, he takes hard drugs socially, and he is incredibly aggressive.
I am planning to move a fair distance away, he assumes I am going to be staying in the area close to him. I know this is a deal breaker for him, and I don't really care.
I just don't know how to tell him! Partly I am scared of his reaction, and partly I hate upsetting/hurting people.
He is currently working away, but I don't know if telling him over the phone is right, especially if he is working.
How do I do it? HELP!
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i'd tell him sooner than later. the longer you leave it the worse it will be. Seeing he's aggressive you don't want to drag it on. He's going to notice things changing and know something is up.1