My ex bf and I have been together on and off over 9 yrs. Tonight he text me he wanted to die. He said "would even matter?" "If I put a shotgun to my mouth and blew my brains". He said I would be happier without him. That the pain of me leaving is too much to deal with. He said "So ending my life can prove it I will do it". I'm so scared. I left him because he cheated and lied. I lost trust in him. He's been abusive (not physically) and he has a bad temper. I don't know how to deal with him, what to do or what to say to him. Help.
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He's most likely bluffing. I've known people who committed suicide. They actually did their best to make it seem like nothing was wrong. This guy just wants attention. He's an emotional parasite. You can't give him self-esteem. He has to build it himself.1