So about 7 weeks ago my ex broke up with me and I'm finding out a few reasons why. Now I plan to talk to her I just want to get an idea of if I screwed myself or not.
Now I have personally been going through a lot and I guess you can say I leaned in my ex. I just needed emotional support. My dad is sick with a debilitating disease and hasn't been doing good since February, my grandpa was diagnosed with cancer, my parents are having financial problems, I'm having kidney/bladder problems etc..
Now I asked for her to be there and might have came across as needy and weak and I think she lost attraction. I just didn't want to lose her and that was my biggest fear. She also might have felt I was holding her back because I was "needy". But I was never like this and really just needed support. Everything I did before we broke up was all unintentional (btw we dated almost 2 years)
Now that were back at school she approached me and wanted to talk. The only bad thing I ever did intentionally to hurt her was last week bring a girl home from a bar infribt of her. I know I was an asshole.
Is this unfixable?
How do I get her back?
Do you think she will come back?
- She will come backVote A
- She won'tVote B
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I would say the only way you can get back with her is to cut off complete contact with her if she asked for closure then do what she wants and she will question as to why you are listening to her when u have been so persistent in getting her back and all of sudden stopped! So do that she will def come back to you and don't tell her about ur problems she will think of you as a weak person and it's a turn off I know ur going through a lot but trust me you have to be able to handle tough times like this all by yourself and she will see through it.. So for now completely cut off contact and don't bring people over or anything just give her closure and space trust me she will be back sooner than you think0
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