Most Helpful Girl
This guy obviously can't tell the truth to save his life. Even if he is lying to her now to avoid upsetting her, or to try and cover his tracks, fact is he is a liar. There is no good reason for lying to anyone when it comes to relationships. He may be holding on to some of your things as a way to contact you in the future, but why would you want him to? You know for a fact he is now lying to someone he is dating, and hate to say this, but had probably lied to you in some way about whatever during YOUR relationship. I recently split with someone who couldn't tell the truth about anything and each lie I found out about, no matter how "small" or "white-lie" it was, just chipped away at any trust I could have had for him. He did that to himself, and I wonder if he knows his ex, who he's now dating again, has reached out to you like this. Don't engage with her any longer, he's her problem now. Decide if whatever things he still has of yours is important or not. If it is, contact him and tell him you need it back now, and then delete him completely from your life and move on. If it's not worth it, then just proceed with the completely deleting him and moving on. And block her from contacting you. It's not fair AT ALL for her to be putting you in that position. She already knows he can't be trusted, and it's ridiculous for her to be trying to verify he still cannot be trusted through you, like you have no feelings. Good luck to you!