Is my ex girlfriend playing mindgames?
What Girls Said 1
Im sorry but you lost me at her posting, "im going to be a mommy" ... is she serious? If not, what kind of head game is that. She's a very confused girl right now! What can you do? Back off completely and let her come to you! Not 3/4 of the way. Not 1/2 the way but ALL of the way. If she really loves you (as she probably does) then she'll show it. Although its possible she loves this other guy just as much and stuck in between not knowing whom to run to. Best thing you can do (as hard as it may be) is not to overly influence her to come back to you. If anything, act like you're moving on if she doesn't get her act together. Ya don't have to be mean but just be confidant that you're not gonna be her doormat and if she's willing to fix the relationship you had together, then you're all for it. You need to make it clear that her still living with him and you getting totally mixed signals is NOT whats going to get you back together. Honesty, forth-righteousness will!
What Guys Said 1
My opinion for what it is worth... this lady is a little confused and may be being 'controlled' to an extent by this other guy. Let's face it he has been stalking her for a long time. Your best way is to always be nice to her and simply get on with your life. Don't expect her to break away from this other guy unless she grows a backbone.
If she really has strong feelings for you she will break away and let you know, but in reality she is in a game that you do not want to be involved in.
Step back and don't participate or you will lose any respect she has for you.
I learnt that life is a long journey and many things can happen, usually we get messed about by other people if we allow it.
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