My boyfriend and i were dating for 8 months. He broke up with me and said "i just don't love you and i think that if i dont love you in 8 months then i never will." i want to know how a guy would feel. i believe that you can't put a time limit on love and that if you love spending time together then do so. love will hit you when it hits you and if you give up because you dont feel it yet then you could be missing out on something great. advice? help? i still love him and im going to talk to him today and i dont know what i should say that might alter his thinking! im very much inlove with him.
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you're right, there is no time limit or deadline when it comes to love. it will just happen. okay you say you're still in love with him but you don't wanna go back to him with that impression like "I still love you baby! please take me back!" don't go that route cause he left you after saying I don't love you anymore, that's harsh so if you want him back you're going to have to go through the obstacles of getting him to realize he made the biggest mistake of his life and he in fact does want you in his life. I don't think you could convince him by talking to him to want you back (barely possible IMO) because of how he left you.0