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You can't be friends right out of a relationship. I went through this conversation with my ex and it doesn't work and she threw a fit about it. I would just move forward with your life and not look into this too much. When the right time comes, you guys can talk and see if friendship is an option. I would say his behavior isn't rational at this point anyway so moving forward is definitely best. Don't mess with people who are inconsistent like that, it messes with your mind and that's not something you need. Respect yourself and him and just do no contact. I would honestly recommend 90 days of no contact. I hope this helps and I'm sorry, as I know how this feels.