No, I'm not going to meet you thats all I wanted to say. There's nothin to talk about.
Me: Breakup? 2 dates. LOL. drama
Her: We didn't have a relationship just dates
Me: I’ll start taking bets on how long you can stay away
(we hanged out before and she contacted me first)
How to deal with it? I find it quite funny and amusing
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you didn't give her the most pleasant experiance on the dates and from what you replied to her. Maybe you shouldn't date anyone. You seem like a douchebag.1
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, it wasn't a boyfriend girlfriend relationship until you both agree on it - and it's gotta be on her to bring it up, not you. And the "you'll be back" thing - confident, which is fine, but if it were me, I wouldn't have said much about that, even if thought it would happen.
A great possibility was: "Hey, at least we had fun. Good luck to ya!" and then no communication, at least until she does it first, then a positive, upbeat response is ok. But now the response I gave you above isn't a good response if you sent the "You'll be back" type post. If anything, you COULD play it off as a confident, flirty kind of thing - like "I'm irresistible - all women want me" (quickly) like... so confident it's a little funny... then drop communication. I do that, but it's almost a little... self effacing. Like... clear overconfidence.
Yes, it was cowardly to send the "I don't think we should date" in text, relationship or not. It was immature. Simply consider it as a sign, and take the high road.
Be glad you didn't whine or beg or ask why. That's not good. But I personally just try to leave it alone. Whether you have other options or not, assume you'll have other options in life (even just working on improving yourself).0