He said the only Reason why he was reaching out to me was because "he saw me adding co workers of his on fb"? Which I'm not none of those "guys" are friends with him on fb, I mean they are all fire fighters like him. I don't talk to any of them anyway. But after I told him I don't want to talk to him he freaked out, and is making every possible way for me to talk to him and his last text was " I have know idea what I did to make you this upset I really don't appreciate what is going on now with the fb I really don't want my work and personal life mixing up if you could please respect that" does this text sounds like an excuse or is he really concern about his job? I haven't replied to him I'm ANGRY, but I won't satisfy him on giving him a "reason why I QUIT HIS PUSH AND PULL GAME", he even "liked my pic on fb RARE THING and then UNFRIENDED ME
Most Helpful Guy
His push and pull game may not be a game he may not even realize he's doing it. Did you talk to him about it before you "quit his game" and I mean actually talk as in sit and listen when both of you are calm to his side of the story and try to understand it before explaining yourself. A lot of people just accuse and blame instead of talking. To me it sounds like this guy is somewhere between angry and scared. Scared because you've left and he doesn't know what he did and angry because things aren't the way he wants them to be and this is how he's chosen to deal with it. If you honestly would rather not have him as part of your life anymore than leave and don't even bother with trying to figure out what he's doing. If you do want him back find a way for both of you to talk about what happened calmly.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Talk it out girl. You just can't really go on thinking that it is just his ego. I hope you have an Idea what guys are like. They talk shit about girls easily. Maybe the guys you added talk shit about you and he really doesn't like it. Or maybe it is a job thing.
Well to be frank there are a 100 of reasons you can think about but you really won't know the real reason until you talk it out0
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