Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for 6 months now. We where together for 3 years and lived together for 2 years. We broke up over a stupid fight that went way to far. During the break I have sent her gifts flowers handwritten letters and been there for her emotionally through tough times. I moved to another state after the break up but plan to move back to her state because of a job offer which she doesn't know about. She told me a month ago that she was still in love with me but doesn't want to wait on me to come back and was gonna date a high school friend. So I immediately went nc but she called 3 days later crying saying she didn't want to lose me and what she didn't want to be nothing to her. And she wanted to be friends I said I try. Then I went back to NC for a month she called yesterday "wanted to make sure I was alive" I keep it short a 2 min convo. She text 30 min later and asked "was it a bad thing I called?" I then asked her if she cared about me?-she replied YES then I asked if she had any romantic feelings for me she replied"I don't want to admit that" then I said "true love doesn't fade" she replied I know trust me. I asked if she loved this new guy she siad "NO!!" I asked if she love me? She siad I care about someone (me) i don't think I can be with? I was her her first love and longest relationship. She still wears my engagement ring. And still has all of my items that I left? With all my heart I know she loves me but I don't know what to do anymore? I fought so much to show her I'm a new man? What does she want because we both know we can't be friends? She still love me I know but I don't know what to do? Please help ladies? She is 22 I'm 28
What does she want from me? ladies please help I'm going crazy over my ex?
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I think you should go to where she's at meet her or surprise her and talk things out i do think she loves you a lot and this new guy isn't at all anything to worry about i think her saying she doesn't think she can be with you but she loves u i think she's feeling guilty on her part about something either she did with this old high school friend or with someone else and i think she is worry if she tells u or it gets out she will lose you because for her to go from i don't wanna loose you to i don't think i can be with u she feels guilty for something cause i feel like she would get back with you in a heartbeat0
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