I just want to teach him a damn lesson. So he can learn to appreciate me and not take things for granted. ..
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Are you sure you REALLY want to give an ultimatium. I mean there is no turning back once you do. Most guys take those to heart and consider it a huge challenge. It is like forcing the guy to submit to you for some of us. If you give him an ultimatium and it doesn't work will you back down and admit it was a bluff or do you follow through with it and take a chance of losing him. I mean there are so many better ways of dealing with issues that dont force one side or the other to admit losing or if neither side will admit it then the relationship is over. If all you are trying to do is "teach him a lesson" I strongly reccomend you find a different way. We might be able to help with ideas if we knew what it was about or why but as for and ulitimatium I just think its a really bad idea.1
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